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Are you wishing to control your Anger?

By Sai Rohith Karanam

Have you ever figured out why you get angry?
Have you ever realized what is it that causes you to get angry?

When something you want doesn't happen,that is what makes you angry.

So you have this urge,' THIS MUST HAPPEN'.
When it doesn't happen, you get angry.

Now, remember, This universe is not for the fulfilment of your desires.
Are you the centre of the universe?
Is the whole world rotating around you?
Then why should your desires be fulfilled all the time?
It doesn't have to be fulfilled, right?

Always keep two possibilities in mind-
'My wish may be fulfilled, may not be fulfilled'.
If your wish is fulfilled, you will be happy.
You should learn to be happy from now on even if your wish isn't fulfilled.
Why should you be happy if your wish isn't fulfilled?
Because you got another chance!
Life is about only the perspectives which we see.
In this way, when you make peace with both sides, you don't get angry.

You should release this intense urge-'THIS MUST HAPPEN'.Let your mind be free.
You have done everything well, gave your best shot. Then why the need for urge?
Even if you fail, your experience never makes you fail the next time.

To conclude in short,
'Situation will not be in your control all the time, but your own state of mind will be in your control if you wish to control it irrespective of the situation.'

Now ask yourself this question, If my mind is in my control, then I will get happiness only if I wish to be happy, I will get jealousy only if I wish to be jealous, I will get anger only if I wish to be angry.






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