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The Painful Truth

By Sai Rohith Karanam

Love,
Respect,
Care,
Opinion.
Nowadays, these are all expected by someone. Let me drive you into this topic with an example.
I bought a black shirt because I love black colour and the design on it. Now I asked one of my friends whether he liked the shirt. He said that it would be nice if I had bought a white colour.
Now, the collision happened between my likes and his likes.
When this incident happened, my mind keeps an impression like 'He's bad/His taste is bad/How fool is he!' in the sub-conscious mind involuntarily. You won't even recognize that this is getting stored in your mind without your intellect's permission!

Now replace this scenario with the new scenario - I bought a black shirt because I love black colour and the design on it. I wore it on the occasion of my friend's birthday party. A friend of mine who saw me there told me that my shirt was awesome.
Now, collision didn't happen between my likes and his likes.
When this incident happened, my mind keeps an impression like 'He's good/His taste is also good/How nice attitude he has!' in the sub-conscious mind involuntarily. Again you won't even able to recognize that this is getting stored in your mind without your intellect's permission!

After reading these two scenarios, what did you understand?
We should not expect people's likes to be the same as our likes. We are diverse. Someone likes black colour and someone don't. We do everything based on our intellect. Similarly, everyone has their own intellect and likes.

       crux points:
  1. Why should you search for love if love is in you?
    Similarly, Why should you degrade the state of your mind based on other's opinions?
  2. When someone says an opinion against you, you should think in your mind like this-
    'Their's opinion is based on their intellect, it can't affect my state of mind'.
  3. Instead of degrading the quality of your mind by negative thoughts, enhance the quality of your mind by respecting their opinions. It's just an opinion, not a conclusion. The conclusion is dependent on you!
Now, let me ask you a question.
Is my black shirt good or bad?

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