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Why me??

By Sai Rohith Karanam

Ever thought of this question?
This 'why me?' question arises in our mind in many circumstances. But, the most probable circumstances are-
  1. Why did I fail again even after giving my best, why me?
  2. Why did this thing happen to me, why me?
  3. Why am I not able to concentrate, why me?
  4. Why am I feeling low, why me?
You will come to get clarity by the end of this post. Let's dive in.

If life gives you whatever you want without any challenges, then how will you experience the real taste of the word 'life'?

Life means not only happiness but also sadness.
Life means not only victories but also defeats.
Life means not only comedy but also a tragedy.
Everyone in this world whoever they are, starting from a successful entrepreneur to a beggar in the streets, everyone has their own and unique happy and sad moments.

Sometimes you don't get what you want, but that doesn't mean you don't deserve that, it means that you deserve more than that!

Problems will come your way, you will fail in your attempts even if you gave your best shot, these are all so common in everyone's life.
When you face them, you should change your perspective in such a way that 'why me?' turns into 'try me!'

Problem   →  Choice  →  Solution
Everyone's got problems, worries. The only difference that comes between individuals is that 'CHOICE' we make when we face any problem.
You have a choice whether to blame yourself or keep trying hard until you get what you want.
During the process of trying hard again, some people give up and some people strive till the end to achieve what they want which makes a big difference between failure and success.

       crux points:
  1. Change your perspective from 'why me?' to 'try me!'.
  2. Your present destination is not your final destination.
    You may fail now, but may win in your next attempt!
  3. There will be at least a single reason what made you fail. Work on them.
  4. Hope for the best!  After doing everything you can, leave it all on the hands of God.













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